There is tons of controversy around the topic of when a dating situation can or "should" turn physical, and even among psychologists and dating coaches there is division about that first sexual encounter and when it can/should occur, some say any time from the first date, others say wait three months! There is so much confusion around the issue that a lot of women become anxious, asking questions like "Will he lost interest if I give it up too soon? will he get bored if I don

A soft girl relationship doesn’t leave you decoding messages with your friends at 1 a.m. It feels safe enough that you don’t have to. The rise of “calm love” One of the biggest shifts in modern dating is the move toward low-drama connection. Women are increasingly looking for partners who: communicate directly follow through regulate their emotions make plans instead of excuses create stability instead of confusion

So, why would he take the time to text frequently if he's not interested? -Because he enjoys the validation of knowing someone wants him, he gets the value of your company and engagement without effort, it's comforting for him and hollow for you.

Whether he’s been a challenge from day one or his distance crept in over time, emotional unavailability can feel like a slow, soul-splitting type of pain. Women are wired for connection, we thrive in certainty and consistency. So what happens when we’re trying to grow love in soil that never settles? Let’s get real: a man pulling back doesn’t always mean he’s emotionally unavailable. Sometimes, we’re just out of sync. And sometimes… it’s deeper than that. This post isn’

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found you on his mind and wants to reach out, quite simply because you’re back on his radar, for whatever reason he’s now turning his attent

Generally, what men say they want is completely different to what really inspires them in reality to fall deeply in love with a woman, this

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Souls recognize each other not by appearance but by vibes Video version here: Soul ties can be felt very deeply and they usually hit you out of nowhere, possibly at the most inconvenient time, or in the strangest of ways. It can be very difficult to explain a soul tie to someone who has never experienced it. But in my opinion they are real. Some people have an inexplicable effect on us. The realization or recognition of a soul tie can be instant, or it can become apparent gra

In today's world, feminism is often misunderstood as a movement where women seek to become like men . With some men arguing that women should now pursue, ask for their number, or pay for the first date dinner. Because feminism. However, at its core, feminism is about advocating for equal rights and freedom of choice for women in all aspects of life. Unfortunately, some men perceive this quest for equality as a threat and may even try to punish women for desiring it. It's th

This week Rachel asked me: "I have been reading through your articles and I love your advice but I am starting to feel like the guy I'm dating wants me to chase him, he came on very strong at the beginning but as I began to like him more I noticed he started to leave me on read, a couple of days would pass and he would ask "why haven't you text me?" I found this confusing but I wondered if it was just genuine crossed wires. So I started reaching out more but whenever I did I

He's not gone but he isn't pursuing me the way he did in the beginning. Just a few weeks ago it seemed that he couldn't get enough of my attention he really was treating me as though I was his dream woman! Suddenly, he hit the breaks and for the past few days it seems we barely speak unless I reach out first. I have tried to talk to him about this but he clammed up. Later he explained that he has a lot going on and just needs some space but we will touch base soon. I really l

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As women our intuition is almost never wrong. You're really feeling this guy and perhaps your connection with him has been growing from strength to strength for a while, so this sudden change of lane or pull back is baffling and has thrown you off guard, or maybe you had a disagreement and he got annoyed and pulled back intentionally, whatever the situation, you feel in your gut that something has shifted energetically and you just can't shake it off. Your friends and family

The pick me woman mindset is rooted in the subconscious absorption of sexist and patriarchal programming which seeps in to the psyche gradually from childhood, and is often reinforced (shockingly) by other women around us, quite literally the pick me woman craves admiration and acceptance from men to an extent that she will even throw her sisters under the bus to get it. Her mantra is “I’m not like other women” yet she is quick to abandon her identity in a heartbeat to please

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