A soft girl relationship doesn’t leave you decoding messages with your friends at 1 a.m. It feels safe enough that you don’t have to. The rise of “calm love” One of the biggest shifts in modern dating is the move toward low-drama connection. Women are increasingly looking for partners who: communicate directly follow through regulate their emotions make plans instead of excuses create stability instead of confusion

So, why would he take the time to text frequently if he's not interested? -Because he enjoys the validation of knowing someone wants him, he gets the value of your company and engagement without effort, it's comforting for him and hollow for you.